It is November and the 2-month holiday season is upon us. Are you excited or is the stress level building? Are your weekends filling up with multiple events to attend? When you are attending a party, is your focus on all the things you still need to do: shopping, work deadlines for the end of the calendar year, what dish to make for the next event? Too many people dread this time of year and wish for it to be over. We have forgotten how to enjoy. How can you be present and create lasting memories during this holiday season while getting things done? Overcome the urge to procrastinate and be intentional about what you choose to participate in using the Producktivity® Principles: Identify. Connect. Organize.
Identify – Begin by acknowledging that there will always be more events, performances and celebrations than you can attend each holiday season. You will need to make choices. Take time with your family and friends to identify the key events you have to choose from; work parties, travel plans, shopping, community party, performances. Also, factor in end of year personal and professional projects such as calendar year closing and tax preparation.
Connect – What events caused you the most stress last year? Make sure to include your significant other and/or family and friends in this discussion. Something that may be fun for you may be very stressful for a member of your family. Are there things you can do differently this year or are there events you want to stop attending this year to eliminate stress? Now, discuss the top 3 events you want to focus on this holiday season. What are the key factors that will contribute to making them enjoyable?
Organize – Get started now and develop your plan before the holiday season is in full swing. For example, spread out your shopping between November and December so you do not have to do all of it at once. Shop online to avoid long lines and traffic. Commit time each week to work on your holiday plans. Manage your priorities rather than allowing your calendar to fill up and manage you.
Using the Producktivity® Principles reduces my stress, because I am purposeful about my holiday planning. It allows me to be present, live in the moment and create lasting memories. Have you had a discussion with your significant other and/or family about your holiday plans? Are there things you are opting to stop doing this year to allow time to enjoy the season? Share your thoughts and experiences with us below.
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It seems so normal to talk with family members about holiday plans, but I don’t ever remember having a conversation about it. It has always been me telling the family what the plans were, and we all go. It will help to talk about the events first and make changes that help everyone enjoy. Thanks for another great post! I also plan to delegate some of the shopping.
Congratulations on your commitment to delegate some of the shopping this holiday season. Asking other family members to assist will allow for everyone to be a part of gift giving and enjoy taking the time to be thoughtful about what gift to give to family and friends.